How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Welcome to How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Advice .Com. My Name is Bridget, and I created this website to help other women win back their boyfriends and put an end to unnecessary relationship problems. If you are feeling depressed and anxious about your breakup, try not to worry, your not alone. I know how bad you feel and I am here to help you. The How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Advice website is packed full of advice to help you win back the love of your ex boyfriend and eradicate any remaining issues in your relationship.
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I know how much it hurts when you break up with someone you love. It is even worse when your boyfriend dumped you and you didn't want to break up. Getting over a broken heart is difficult and painful, and it takes time. At times it can feel like your whole world is falling apart as you suddenly find that you are alone.
I recently went through it all myself and I would like to begin by telling you my story. My boyfriend and I had been seeing each other for over 4 years while we were at College, and despite the fact that we had been happy together in the past, we had begun drifting apart. We had both graduated and were working hard for our new employers, trying to impress in a difficult job market. We starting spending less time together, we were both tired and grumpy in the evenings after work, and we started bickering all the time over pointless things as a result. Our sex life suffered and it became clear that neither of us were happy any more. In the end it was my boyfriend Nick who decided to end it. He moved out a couple of days later.
I became depressed and lonely after he left, and turned to family and friends for support. Everyone was great, rallying round to cheer me up and put a smile back on my face. My first piece of advice is to spend as much time as you can with your friends and family after a break up. They will help take your mind off things and remind you that you have other sources of happiness in your life.
I tried my best to have fun, but after a couple of weeks the novelty of being single really began to wear off, and I was feeling more lonely than ever. I started thinking about my ex, and why it had gone so wrong after we had been so happy for so many years. I thought long and hard about it and realized that all relationships have rocky periods, and that we hadn't dealt with the problems that had arisen properly. I came to realize that we could have solved our problems if we had behaved more maturely and talked about them. I realized that actually our relationship had on the whole been really great, that he was the right man for me, I still loved him, and I wanted him back.
At this point I began scouring the internet reading articles and buying books on the subject of how to get your ex boyfriend back. All of the relationship Guru's were telling me not to appear desperate, and I acknowledged that as he had ended the relationship, he had to be the one to decide to make another go of it. Relationships after all require the dedication of both people to make them work. Although it was incredibly hard and took all the willpower I had, I decided not to call or text him, but to wait for him to contact me. I took the decision to stop moping around and get out of the house and make the effort to improve myself and learn new skills. I had always been interested in learning Spanish, so I signed up for evening classes. I also bought a second hand kayak and joined a local kayak club.
Giving him space and time to think eventually worked. He called me one night saying that he wanted to talk and asked me to meet up with him towards the end of the week for a drink. I told him that on Thursday I had a Spanish class, on Friday I had arranged to meet up with some girlfriends, and on Saturday I was going on an all day kayak trip with the club and so couldn't meet him that week. He responded by saying how great he thought it was that I had finally taken action with learning Spanish and was very positive about my pursuits. I ended the conversation by saying that I needed some more time to think things through, and I made sure that he got the message that I wasn't going to come running back whenever he clicked his fingers, but that he had a chance if he really wanted to rescue our relationship.
Over the next couple of weeks I started to receive flowers, funny poems and text messages, and other small presents from Nick, who made it clear that he missed me and wanted to get back together. He called a few times to talk and I eventually agreed to meet up with him for a drink. We talked about our problems and where it had all gone wrong. We both opened up to each other about our feelings and were honest about how much we had missed each other. After a couple of "dates" I agreed to give our relationship another go. Nick moved back in and things have been going really great every since. I had won my boyfriend back.
Winning my boyfriend back has been a seminal point in my life and I wanted to share what I learned about the subject of how to win your ex boyfriend back. That’s the reason why I created how to win your ex boyfriend back advice .com, to try and help other women like me solve the unnecessary problems in their relationships, and win back the love of their boyfriends.
I have to mention that every relationship is different, and what worked for me might not be appropriate for your situation. I also want to advise you to think really clearly about weather you really want to get back with your boyfriend. I certainly don't advise you trying to save an abusive relationship, or to try and win back a guy that has repeatedly cheated on you.
A key factor in getting my boyfriend back was that I listened to the advice of close friends, as well as information that I got from reading save relationship books and articles. To help you save time and avoid wasting money on poorly written and ineffective books and courses, I have listed my favorites in the Recommended Products section of this website. I honestly believe that by following the advice in these resources I made Nick realize just what he was missing.
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