Telltale Signs Your Boyfriend Is Cheating
When it comes to cheating, there are some obvious signs that every woman should to be aware of. Even the best of relationships aren't completely foolproof, and many couples have had to deal with infidelity at some point. Every woman should know the top ten signs of infidelity. Please note that the list below is in no particular order, and men who really are cheating often exhibit several of these signs simultaneously.
10 Signs your Boyfriend Is Cheating
1). Perfume odors
A common sign that your boyfriend is cheating is his smell. Why do your boyfriend's dirty clothes reek of perfume that isn't yours? A few other red flags are if he's late coming home from work or a night out with the guys and he smells of perfume. A woman's sense of smell is much stronger than that of a man and can be helpful in detecting an unfamiliar perfume. You have to be strong and ask him about the new perfume that you smell on him. Consider how he reacts. If he appears to behave suspiciously or react with anger then it's a sign that there's something that needs investigating further.
2). Other Women's hairs
Another classic sign your boyfriend is cheating is the continual presence of female hairs. If you keep on finding long dark hairs on his clothes, when you have blonde hair, it might be time to ask him about it. If you suspect your boyfriend is cheating look for evidence other than hairs, such as glitter ( especially if you do not wear glittery products) and even smudges of lipstick on his clothing. This will really help you when it comes to detective work. Maybe you need to gather every strand of blonde hair, use a sachet to put them in, and confront him with it. Be 100% sure he is being unfaithful to you before you do this however, as otherwise you will come across as a crazy person.
3). His Appearance
If your boyfriends is the type of guy to doesn't really care about his appearance, but all of a sudden he's checking himself in the mirror, wearing deodorant, making sure his socks aren't smelly, and tucking his shirt in, you may have cause for concern. Has he just bought a brand new wardrobe and shoes? Is he all of a sudden sporting a new hairstyle, perhaps even a mani-pedi! It is one thing for a person to want to look good and take care of himself, however, a sudden and complete change in appearance should throw up a red flag. If your boyfriend goes from being a total slob to looking like he just walked off the cover of G.Q., this is cause for immediate concern.
4). Working after normal work hours.
There could be a genuine reason for all your boyfriend's overtime. Maybe he's saving up to buy you a birthday gift such as the necklace or a holiday. He could be staying away from the house for a number of perfectly innocent reasons. Is there something that he's bothered by at home? Have you found your relationship to be rather stressful lately? Have you tried verbally discussing the issue with him? Working late doesn't necessarily indicate that he's cheating. If he can't be reached when he is away from the house, often has "meetings" that he doesn't want to talk about, or trips that you really don't believe are business trips, it is probably time to confront him. You deserve to know if your boyfriend is fooling around behind your back. The easiest way to get to the truth? Take a look at his wage slip. If it is truly the case that he is working overtime, his paycheck stub will prove it. If you can take a look at his wages, you may be able to figure out if he's cheating or not without a messy confrontation.
5). Decreased intimacy
How long has it been since you and your boyfriend had sex? Do you remember when you last shared a passionate kiss? Is action in the romance department really lacking lately? There is not a long term couple on earth that does not have its good and its bad times in the bedroom. However, if the sex problem persists no matter your efforts, you must consider talking about it.
6). Concealing his neck or other body areas
If your man has suddenly started concealing his body parts, this could be a sign that he is hiding some infidelity war wounds. Key things to look out for are scarves, as men often use these to conceal love bites on the neck. Also, if your boyfriend has recently started locking the bathroom door when showering, no loger gets undressed in front of you, and only wants to have sex with the lights out, then he could be hiding some scratches or other injuries from a mistress.
7). Declining to meet for lunch
If you have asked him to meet with you for a meal and he says no repeatedly, it is possible that he is just busy during his lunch break. Pop in on him at work unannounced to see what's up. If he starts skipping other meals due to stomach aches, or because he simply isn't hungry, its time to dig a little deeper. He must be having a meal with someone, somewhere.
8). Excessive Lies
It's amusing that men are under the impression that they can blatantly lie and not get caught. Apparently, men don't know about our incredibly amazing radar, which detects lies from great distances. Everyone tells a little white lie on occasion. And that's perfectly ok and pretty normal. However, if you start to notice a sudden change in your boyfriend's behavior, such as repeated lying, no eye contact, and numerous excuses for his actions, you should confront him as there could be a serious problem causing his weird behavior.
9). He starts spending more time on the Internet
You realize that your boyfriend is spending a lot more time online. You suspect that he is using dating sites and other social media sites and isn't just talking to his long-time friends. He has even created additional email accounts that you can't access as you don't have the passwords for. Major hint: When you unexpectedly enter the room, he closes the window he was using and he seems awkward. Could he be communicating with another woman and trying to hide it? It's a possibility. If you just can't avoid it any longer and you just have to look, go ahead and check his history. If his history is cleared then he must be keeping something secret. Bare in mind he might not be cheating. Instead he could be shopping for a gift for you, or doing something else fairly innocent.
10). Account statements from the bank
If you have accidentally caught an inadvertent glimpse of your boyfriends bank statement, Did you notice anything unusual? For example were there a few charges to a store that sells lingerie, flowers, chocolates and the like? Clearly you can see he didn't buy anything for you and wasn't buying himself underwear from Victoria's Secret. There's also the jewelry store charge and more than a few payments at fancy restaurants. You would certainly be aware of any recent dinners out with him, and whether or not he has presented you with any gifts that relate to the charges. Just be certain that your birthday or anniversary isn't coming up before considering this as a serious cheating sign and confronting him.
